…are you a boy or a girl? on September 22, 2012October 4, 2012 By thelolafrost 17 Comments Photo by David Denofreo at Black Opal Images. …neither. I am a woman. Let me ask you this – does it matter? I was indeed born, raised and am presently living as a woman. Yet I get asked this question from men and woman alike. About once a month. Continue reading “…are you a boy or a girl?”